Nobody can fill the space of
a loved one in our lives. But time is a great healer, the grief lasts for some
time and then the world moves on. No matter what religion/culture/ideology you
may follow, one thing is certain: "You’re going to die. We all are going
to die. Sooner or later."
It made me realize how
fragile our life is and how helpless we are in this respect. Regardless of the
wealth, beauty or power, we all have to die and we take nothing with us to the
grave. Nothing? I asked myself. Nothing?
Can you think of an
answer?
A house? A factory? A job?
Money? Beauty? Fame? Power? Favorite food? Knowledge? Branded clothes? Medals?
Degrees? Certifications?
No doubt all of this is
more or less important to live a happy & a successful life.
Then what is the meaning
of this life? Am I here only for the materialistic things? Am I only here to
study, get a degree & then a job, then get married & have kids, and
then die when I get old? This is what most of us intend to do in life, isn't it?
The life goals; *if you will*
I am not claiming that all
this shouldn't be done. Of course it must be done to survive. However, we can
add some more perspective & objective to our lives, can’t we? An aim that
gives life a better meaning and will make us feel contented.
Do something for the world
before you leave. Find a way that you enjoy and it also helps the other fellow
beings. The world only remembers the ones who give sacrifices & strive for
a positive change. The world we are harvesting today with wars & hatred, it
greatly needs positive minds and helping hands.
The idea of contributing
is very important and should totally depend on your personal interests, e.g.,
it can be social welfare, sciencetific research, technological innovation,
religion, international peace, law & order, creativity, etc.
In my experience, the
source of true happiness & satisfaction is helping others, being
non-selfish and benefiting the needy. I don’t want to regret, when I turn 50-60
years old, that I didn’t do anything significance for the world even though I
had the resources. I don’t want to have a big void in my heart.
I hope we all don't want a
meaningless life. I pray that we all find that meaning to it.
Start planning to give just
a few hours every week/month to your goal.
Dream for a good cause at an effective scale; "Dreaming is the first step
to a successful plan, of course if followed by dedication and practical
implementation."
Sit back, close your eyes,
relax, and ask yourself:
“What can you do to help others? Why are you here?”
by
Umer Fiaz Abbasi
( I do not intend to offend or harm anyone's feelings. I write what I feel, if I'm wrong please help me to correct myself.)
(Photo: theguardian.com)
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Good One..
ReplyDeleteWell there is always a chance that by intending something good for someone you might be indirectly hurting someone else. So what I want to say is that suit back, close your eyes, relax, ask yourself what can I do to help others? And lastly think of the consequences before you act. Just my point of view. But any how great article, enjoyed reading it. It really got me to think about the importance of this life.
ReplyDeleteGood one Ehsan. This thought didn't come to my mind. You are very right; we should help the needy but also make sure nobody else is getting affected.
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Great piece. Keep writing and inspiring :)
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ReplyDeleteThanks for the positive feedback @all :)
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